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One To Grow On: There are many keys to successful relationships. Below, Ms.Susan Q. a renown relationship therapist reveals ( 10 ) simple things women need to know as well as men to deepen our partnerships and help make our relationships better. 1.Without quality time your relationship wont survive. Carve out at least half an hour a night and at least twice a month when the two of you spend time exclusively together. 2.You will both need security and comfort. A good relationship is built on compromise and a great deal of give and take on both sides. 3.Keep your dependence and independence in balance. Tell and show your partner how much you need him but dont cling, as that can make your partner feel trapped. 4.Encourage him to listen to you by showing appreciation when he does, by the same token show interest when he talks to you. Be aware that most men aren't mentally programmed for conversation in the way women are. They need more silence and internal time. 5.Make him appreciate you. Dont wait for a spontaneous compliment but say something good about yourself and ask for his agreement. 6.Teach him, preferably early in your relationship , exactly how to give you a fail-safe orgasm because its unlikely he'll find out alone. If you dont yet know yourself, find out. 7.Learn to do one thing that is most likely to restore great feeling in your relationship,giving your partner a genuine loving and approving smile. 8.Often those subtle quirks that first attracted you to your partner can,with time, turn around and become toe-culingly annoying habits. Learn to love him, flaws and all. 9.Hidden resentments poison a relationship so if something bothers you,say it remember that while men are wary of emotional conversations, they love to find solutions. Express your problem and then ask him to help you find the answer. 10. Learn that punishing your partner dont work. It may make you feel better to give him a hard time, but it will actually make him dig his heels in more, a better tactic is to rewind the things you like and ignore what you dont like..............................THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1